It is my mission to turn the high beam of sweet love your way. No matter where you are, in or out of relationship, the weekend demands bodacious and thrilling Love Day treats, take-aways, and super Self-Lovedom. It might even require a tantrum...a magic love-releasing of sorts. Whatever you need, this is your chance to give it to yourself like it should be given.
The Do's
#1 Make a date for the weekend
This year Sunday is Love Day. Reserve the whole weekend if you can. Go out with the girls or the guys. Get out. Go dancing and live it up. Set the intention to have the best time ever and you will.
Execute "Operation Loveness". A home-sweet-home date might just be the best, and exactly what you need right now. Invite a friend or two of your special besties and slumber party it. If you like to slumber long and alone in your bed, invite them for a cozy dinner, drinks and a movie. Give them a coffee and send them home warmly into the night.
A few perfect "Love Day" films.
-Wild
-Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
-Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
-Fried Green Tomatoes
-Thelma & Louise
Spending the night alone could be your definition of blissed out. Go all-out for you. Order out and have it delivered. Spread furry blankets and (safely) light candles. Have a pitcher of water, wine or margaritas etc. at arms reach but do not drive. Get really good chocolate, or have a cake made for you with exactly what you want it to say on top. Watch a good girl movie or a season of your favorite show.
Have a long conversation with a friend over skype and share a cocktail, coffee or glass of wine together. Reminisce about all the great times you have had together. Express the deep love you will always have for your dearest friends, no matter what is going on in life. They are definitely lifetime gems to be grateful for. Your besties are forever.
#2 Adorn Yourself
Going out for the night? Dress up! Dress hot! Do your make-up and wear those special shoes. Look in the mirror before you go and tell yourself you are fabulous, because you are. Wear your favorite crystals, jewelry and live it up. Consider calling a cab, limo or having a designated driver for the night.
If you decide to be the goddess-queen of your lair, wear some sensual, beautiful clothing that sings sexy-lounging. Do not throw on your usual sack-out sweats. Pick something beautiful that feels good against your skin, and makes you feel beautiful inside and out. Wear lipstick, some brand new silky soft pants or a pretty comfortable loose sweater. Which brings me too...Gifts.
#3 Give Yourself Gifts
This is the weekend to:
-Get your nails done alone or with friends
-Book a spa day alone or with your Besties
-Take a trip to visit a friend
-Buy yourself an "extravagant" gift
-Of course have flowers delivered to Ms. Loveness
-Buy a new outfit to wear for going out and dancing
-Buy a new robe or lounge wear that screams how deserving you are of this queenly treatment
-Wear lipstick
The Don'ts
#1 Do not go out to a couples kind of restaurant by yourself, and look at couples who seem to be having the best time together. Perhaps if you could really see the truth of the relationship, their issues and all the fights they've been in, you would choose to be single.
#2 Do not meet your friends and have too many drinks, drive home and/or make yourself sick. This is your time to rule, not hurl.
#3 Do not look at pictures of your ex, the two of you together, or look them up on Facebook. In fact seriously consider burning most of those old photos if not all of them. Have a Love-Burning (safely please) in honor of your new Ms. Loveness status.
#4 Do not time travel to the dimension of the past or allow yourself to ache over what most likely was not the relationship you were supposed to be in.
I have a feeling sister, that this just might be one of the very best Valentine's celebrations you have ever had. Being good to yourself, visiting and cherishing friends and special people in your life that you do love, adds more power to your love beam, making you super-irresistible. Partners that let you down and just didn't work because they couldn't commit (wouldn't commit) or put their work first, or expected you to be superwoman so they could keep playing outside, or the ones that betrayed you simply cannot exist in this kind of love realm. If you keep treating yourself like this, you will be able to spot them from a mile away. Loving yourself first changes everything.
I have a special gift for you my dear. Head on over here to get my Lakshmi Bountiful Blessings CD. You will feel amazing after you listen to it!
Have the best Love Day ever! Let me know how it goes.
XoTatiana
ps. Pass this along to your girlfriends who may need love and support this weekend.
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It is better to have your head in the clouds and know where you are, than to breathe the clearer atmosphere below them, and think you are in paradise.
~ Henry David Thoreau
This week look to the sky for all that glitters, for all the good that is on the way. I am inspired by Jimi Hendrix this week! He was an Aries, a maverick and an innovator. He revolutionized guitar bringing a style and sounds never heard before on this Earth...in this realm. We reach to the sky for the possibilities we cannot see, feel, know or touch yet. Savor the sun on your face, somehow we are transcended to another place. Take a meditation trip and skip to the other side.
The book "Ask and it is Given" by Esther and Jerry Hicks completely altered my life. I had the extreme pleasure of meeting Jerry Hicks at an event in California, and Esther Hicks sent a sweet message over to me during a lunch. Jerry has crossed over to the other side but Esther is still teaching and channeling Abraham a group of beings from the non-physical dimension.
"What if?" is an exercise from "Ask and it is Given" (which I recommend to you with every fiber of my being). Let's try it. Ask yourself what if my life was going better than I could ever imagine or dream? Or what if the Universe gave me more than enough time, money and resources than I could ever imagine? Asking the question takes you right up to the sky... to the realm where all matter and manner of possibility exists.
Feel the difference between, "Why do I have all the money I could ever need and more than I could ever imagine?" and "I have all the money I could ever need and more than could ever imagine." Both are positive but adding why? how? or what if? takes you straight up to a huge, beyond-all- comprehension wide-open and limitless realm of possibility, magic, reinvention and co-creation with your Higher Power. I don't know about you but that sounds like a great place to be an hang out.
What if this is the best week you have yet in 2016? What if you are showered with gifts? And the raise you want happens? Or the money comes through from the investors? Or your honey surprises you with a trip. Or....
May you kiss the sky and ride the clouds often and as long as you can.
Lots of Love
XoTatiana
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It's going to be your year. You are already awesome, capable, talented, beautiful and ever oh-so-deserving of what you want. The image above is where I sat in August at one of my favorite places on Earth, Honaunau the City of Refuge. Legend says " The pu-uhonua (places of refuge, literally meaning 'hill of earth' ) offered more than physical protection. It was a sanctuary of supernatural power." Find out more about why this place is so mystically charged. I feel the presence of the Divine Feminine there. The Goddess Pele is the Hawaiian Mother Creatress Volcano Goddess. That's the chair I sat in. I wrote what I wanted to let go of and create in a special notebook. It is said that you cannot take lava, sand or shells from the island. I was careful to shake my notebook free of sand but when I got home, a few grains came back with me in the plastic that covered the notebook. I don't feel bad about it. It was supposed to come back with me. When I hold it, I know this notebook and everything that is written down in it, is powerfully charged and blessed.
In the wee hours of Friday morning, I just wanted to jump over the threshold and say bye-bye!! No deep inventory of who, what, when, where, why... just bye. How did you feel? My mantra prescription last week was pick 1-3 things you to create this year. What did you pick? Sharing your intentions brings energy and power to what you want. Do you have an absolute #1 thing? One of my top things is 100% Health & Vitality!
Because you are one of my peeps, I already know you are about the business of keeping your vibration high, using your intuition and following the path of your inner wisdom. You were sent here to leave your sprinkles and sparkles of magic, and leave your merry mark here on the planet.
Time to choose ( if you wish) where you'll put and keep your attention. You know that feeling you get when you are coming down with a little something? It's a bummer when that happens but that "is" your intuition sending a message from your body. You know what you need. And the beautiful thing is we get signs from the big "U" all the time, like animal or number signs that keep popping up.
One huge message and gift all wrapped into one is something that someone else has that you are envious of. Your envy is a root of your desire. So decide "Yes I shall have "___________" that for myself. I am ready!" If you wish, take it a step further and ask, "How can I make that happen?" Then let go. Every morning state your intention. You'll be amazed at the opportunities, signs and coincidences that appear.
You might even want to get yourself a special magical notebook like mine to write affirmations, intentions and desires in. Write down your weekly mantra and quotes that hit you.
My 2016 Forecast is still on special for a detailed and in-depth look at what's coming up for you this year, and the possible strategies available to make it awesome.
It's amazing what happens once you state your desires and intentions. The big"U" just has to set it up. I created going on tour playing my music down to the how much I was paid, and the kinds of events and rooms I performed at. I also manifested being within a half hour of the airport. When I lived in Kona, Hawaii I was literally ten minutes away.
Have a great week!!
Magical Blessings
XoTatiana
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