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Lay Down Your Roots & Count Your Lucky Stars ~ Libra New Moon Oct. 19th 2017 www.tatianascavnicky.com



Jupiter the planet of fortunate blessings beams optimism, wealth, opportunity and big-picture vision for a bright future during this Libra New Moon. As I write, a Red-Tailed Hawk calls from my backyard. Hawks as totems, are related to the new moon (I love the synchronicity!) and to fall. It's a supreme messenger bird giving you visionary information for your life purpose. It comes to say, "Your prayers are being answered. Recognize, own and share your gifts." 

Red-Tail Hawk represents the first chakra, or root chakra. When you are right at the roots, everything lines up. The red root chakra is the bioenergy center of your feet, legs, lower abdomen and back. It rules tribal energy and the beliefs we were raised with, as well as money and abundance, and feeling safe and secure. Expect healing from the ground up! We went into hyper-drive mode August 21st at the Leo New Moon - Total Solar Eclipse and continues. We are still in the midst of that cosmic portal of change.

And this Libra New Moon comes with two very fortunate lucky stars! Can you feel it? Let's see what the cards have to say... 






Protection
Two regal swans protect a lovely white goddess. Yet again, the cards accurately represent the moon phase. A new moon rises above her left shoulder, our feminine side, from where we receive, feel and intuit energy from. I shuffle the deck I use for readings, at least seven times, until they tell me to stop. When I am giving a reading, I am often asked, "Who are they?" They are who I call on at the beginning of every reading. My prayer is, "Dear God/dess, archangels, ancestors, ascended masters and all manner of light beings, I ask that you continue to make me a perfect channel. Whatever messages, guidance or healing that (the person I am reading) needs to get, that they receive it. So you, my dear are receiving this reading, and all the prayers and divining that came along with it.

Swans represent Winter, and the awakening of our true, authentic beauty and power. Because it is one of the most ancient animal totems, it is a calling for us to rise up and step into our true power. True power is graceful, open, generous, able and strong. These graceful and regal birds represent the child, dreamer and mystic, and are connected to the goddess of love, Aphrodite. Whispers of previous lifetimes and pivotal past lives may already be calling you to reclaim your spiritual inheritance and gifts. Were you a medicine man or woman, shaman/shamaness, healer, priest/priestess or witch? If the word "witch" scares you, it may be that you were punished and maybe even killed for being a wise women. Witches worked with folk magic, or earth magic. They knew the healing properties of herbs and roots, and energetic healing techniques. Their original image and purpose was distorted much later by the patriarchy to be dark and maleficent, and you know the other word. In fact men were allowed in many cases to continue to practice as sorcerers, and work as high ranking people in high courts, as scribes and advisors.

The point is you are leveling up, coming into alignment and being called to do what you came here to do. The mystic is being called to the mountain, retreat and meditation pillow. The healer is called to get a medical degree or pursue a certification. The astronomer to divine and name the stars, and the matchmaker to match. Third eyes are waking up everywhere, making you intensely more sensitive to the energy of people, places and things. If you are having issues with that, it might be time to have a session together. There are definite ways you can protect your vibration. Knowing the full story behind it all, and why now...will come through in an intuitive reading, giving you strength, relevant information and techniques to manage and grow.





Purity
A beautiful maiden's veil appears to represent Libra, the keeper of the scales of balance and justice. Pure intentions bring harmony and balance within. Purity of mind, body and spirit creates union. What is the core of your spiritual practice? Meditation? Journaling? Time with friends at the end of a long week? What is at the core of your self-care? Lean into that because there will be unexpected surprises during this lunation. Huge changes that began back in August at the Total Solar Eclipse continue. This is the end of a Number one year. 2+0+1+7=1 What is more true than ever for you? Your truth sets you free! Bite into that apple and taste the juice, everyday. Who wants the best for you? What is at the center of your happiness? What desires and wishes will you keep and nurture, and what are you not taking with you in 2018?

Her gaze is focused and intense. Flowers on either side of her veil are Libra's scales. Are you making good choices? For me, life has felt chaotic but rich with goodness, creativity and inspiration. I have SO been called! My dear if everyday is like groundhog day, it's time. Are you longing for something to sink your teeth and your soul into? If you know what it is, go for it. When fear comes in the guise of overwhelm, just take it step by step. When things are going wrong, they just might be going right. We are not in charge and don't have control of everything. That's a hard pill to swallow for a virgo-sun, gemini-rising. Something much greater and oh so magnificent has our back. There really are no words to even describe it. Purify your focus and take the opportunity of this new moon, to get to the heart of what is true for you at this time and what you really want to create and call in now. New moons are for creating my dear.



Healing
Watch out for doing too much that you run yourself ragged. It is very important to shield and protect your energy at this time, especially if you are just beginning to claim the powerful intuitive gifts you were born with. You came here with something to do and share, and we are counting on it. Limit your time in negative places and with negative people. Even though Halloween is just around the corner, lock your energy up tight from energy vampires. Pains in your shoulders and neck are often energetic cords of attachment from mothers, sisters and female friends, especially on the left side. Issues swept under the rug in relationship that we may have been keeping the peace for, may come out and erupt. This is all types of partnerships, personal and business.

Great healing aspects come with this new moon's rise. As I said earlier, refine your self-care routine or stick tight with what is working for you. You have changed a lot! We are still downloading so much as spiritual beings. When you pray you are downloading direct messages. Some of these are too big to comprehend, because if you knew what Spirit had in store for you, you might totally freak out! Or not believe it, preventing this miracle to happen for you and your life, because you couldn't believe it could happen. Stay balanced and true to yourself.

I have some upcoming events to share! I'll be pulling 3 cards Live on Facebook Friday, and throwing down an oracle card reading HERE. You don't want to miss it.
And the Goddess Gallery Intuitive Readings event happens in Plymouth, MI Friday Nov. 3rd. I'll be giving everyone a personal one-on-one mini reading, and you get so much more from hearing everyone else's reading. There is limited seating of 13 for this event. Book your spot here and for more info check out this link.

Oracle cards: Vintage Wisdom ~ Victoria Moseley

It's lovely to wish you another New Moon full of hopes, desires, wishes and magic! Stay wild moon child...
XoTatiana

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LEO FULL MOON + ECLIPSE + COMET: Cosmic Awakening of Love & Life February 10th/11th 2017 www.tatianascavnicky.com


























A great portal of light will open this weekend! Sun in Aquarius and Full Moon Eclipse in Leo bursts our human hearts open with love and light. This moon has mojo. Fill your heart and spirit up with this delicious life-giving light, and let Mother Moon do her mystical thing as only mothers can do. 

I can't tell you how much it blows my mind to pull a card with a full moon on it. Yes! We've got one! All the cards have their rightful place...but a full moon for a Full Moon reading!? Holy Amazeballs! It demonstrates that when speaking to the Divine...it answers. My belief in the synchronicity of miracles and magic is renewed, and set aflame again. 



☽ Body Movement
A Full Moon beams over a fairy circle. Fairies or the "fae" represent the earthly kingdom. Many are gathered here for this radiant celebration of light. They are at this gathering to draw down the moon and the light, and to let it in and be filled with it. The white color of the fae represents air sign aquarius, and fire sign leo. Normal for a full moon or new moon, you may not have slept well these past few nights, or felt that something was arising in you that you could not put words to yet. These fairies are free. Our need to be free and liberated is most important now. We are declaring sovereignty to our deep beliefs about what is right and true. Aquarius is the sign of greater good. Brotherhood + Sisterhood = the Greater Good. We come together in truth and solidarity to protect and contribute from our necks of the woods. 

Spend time with your soul circle people. Seek out your tribe and imbibe this moon juice love with celebration and light. This card is calling for us to gather under the moon. I have a Full Moon  Eclipse Gathering event this coming Saturday we are bringing down the light!  

The New Year comet, "45P" as they are calling it, is coming too this weekend! 

Numerology wise 4 + 5 = 9. 

The New Year Comet marks the beginning of the new nine year cycle. The comet, full moon and eclipse together are a momentous happening in the sky. Astrologers regard that eclipses potentiate and super-charge full moons. Let's just add a comet! 

Relationships and business partnerships can dissolve quickly during a phase like this. People will just disappear. It is a good time to say goodbye with pure intention to relationships that disempower you and ways of being in relationships that do. Cut your ties to psychic vamps. They are the people who always want your help and support. They suck the blood out of you with their constant need of your help and support and do not have the capacity to reciprocate. Let drama queens star in their own show and don't buy a ticket. 
























☽ Hathor
Time to rise up and be the star of your life! Leo the lion/lioness rules the pride and lair. Leo's element is fire. It's time to come out and be seen. Show yourself to the world. Believe in your god/dess-given talents. Be receptive to creative ideas. Ideas and inspiration are of the element of air - thoughts and ideas. This is where the word inspire comes from, which means to be inspired. 

The Egyptian goddess Hathor is sky and sun goddess. Sky represents the air element of aquarius. Sun is leo. Balance doing (leo masculine energy) with inspiration (aquarius feminine energy). The mother Cow Goddess Hathor is shown with a sundial on her head. She's also a goddess of music, dance, motherhood, joy, foreign lands and mining. Mining and foreign lands? I can't help but think of the turning of the tides coming in environmentalism. 

Hathor shines a light on this moon's theme of relationships. Jupiter the planet of relationships, recently went retrograde. We seek freedom, truth and transparency in regards to relationships. We see with fresh eyes where we are closed down in our hearts. Subconscious uprooting intensified at last month's new moon. The parts of yourself that want to be healed are just at the surface now. You know how you want to change. You see how you are with loved ones. Let yourself be open to seeing the blocks that have been created by past experiences connected to relationships, so you can let them go under the full moon. 

What you ache, long for, and wish to create is coming to the light! Yes. You can begin now to clear these blocks to love and open your heart. I highly recommend meditation and self or guided hypnosis. Personalized meditations embedded with your name and specific to the issues you are releasing creating create quick change in clearing beliefs, and replacing them with healthy ones. 

Not only will people literally fall out of your life during this moon/eclipse phase; but beliefs about yourself that no longer serve you can too. I've been getting this information from Spirit since mid-December of last year. If you haven't already, you can simply step out of our skin now. Signs of skin shedding include wanting a new look. Changing you hair or your style. Needing change in relationships. Being called to your life purpose or a change in direction. Wanting to explore new things or get back to the things that made you feel free are part of this moon's rut-busting vibe.

We shedded our skins at the end of 2016, the last year of the previous nine numerological cycle. We don't need to know exactly where we are going, but now is the time to shine bright. Let your ideas and inspiration take flight! Come out to life! Think of the times you were just feeling yourself and you met the love of your life or your best friend, or got a job opportunity without even trying because you were sharing what you love to do. Leo loves life! Aquarius lives for ideas and innovation! 


☽ Water
Water flows. Change is flowing. Aquarius is the water-bearer. Listen for those prompts to change up your lifestyle. Repetitive thoughts or feelings are your intuition speaking to you.  

Note urges to change your look or redecorate. Time to declutter and organize. This is wonderful to do to make room for the future, or if something you've been manifesting hasn't happened yet. Clearing clutter clears energy. You are telling the Universe you are making room for the new. 

Follow messages to adjust your schedule for self-care and play time. The changes you make now will allow the flow (water) to impact your lifestyle, so your life flows better. Be careful of spreading yourself too thin. Doing, doing, doing, is masculine energy. Balance with feminine receptive energy. 


I hope to see you Saturday night in Plymouth, MI for the Full Moon Eclipse Gathering. 
I'll be pulling
oracle cards for the group as a whole and giving mystical details of this full moon phase. Live music will be provided by yours truly and Mark Watson of AngelEarth Music

*Oracle Cards: Healing With The Fairies, Goddess Deck & Magical Unicorns ~ Doreen Virtue


Let the freedom flags fly and lovers be free to love! Happy Full Moon my dears! I am so happy to have shared this reading with you. 

Wishing you magically cosmic full moon blessings,
XoTatiana





LOVE & WORK KARMA CLEANSE: Capricorn Full Moon ☽❍☾ July 19th 2016 www.tatianascavnicky.com


























Capricorn is ruled by the god of karma-Father Time. The coming full moon stirs up a melting pot cauldron of emotion around love and self-care, and the pursuit of happiness through work and ambition. Change is good! Let the big "U" know you are ready! Time to clear karma around work and relationships created through work. Say "bye" to relationships that suck your time and energy. If you have been to one of my events you know the kind of "bye!" I am talking about. Your surrender has probably been duly noted. You may have already done things like change up your schedule because you can feel something in the air. Are you camping out in your tent under the white flag waiting? Protecting yourself from drama-queens and kings? This is a legendary opportunity to be fresh, clean and clear and sassy again. 

The crystal above is an amethyst heart I got from my favorite crystal shop on the Big Island. I wrapped it up in clothes and brought it back in my suitcase on my last trip. Kona Rock & Mineral really does rock. Amethyst is great for clearing and softening your energy and increasing your intuition. Its one of our crystals you can use during this moon phase. 

It may be really intense the next few days or so. In a good way too. Follow the guidance to set goals for work and clear clutter like paperwork at home. People will be going through stuff. Things from the past that need to be sanctioned by you only for forgiveness are highly likely. Here are your mystical add-on's.










 Choice 
Time to revamp life at home and balance work. Who are you at home? Have you gotten away from your core essence? Are schedules and to-do's giving you a sense of accomplishment? Or do you feel as if you will never catch up. Here is the good news and bad news...you won't ever catch up because there will always be things to do. So guess what beautiful? You can let go and relax. The world will not fall apart and hasn't yet. Phew! 

In the arms of this month's cancerian energy we are still leaning into the art of nurturing ourselves and our beloveds. The full moon makes us look at how much we are including ourselves in being caring and nurturing. Hermitting and spending time at home feels good. Cancer and Capricorn are feminine signs. This is an energy of receiving and softening against Capricorn energy...pursuing goals and making things happen. Picture the goats that live on a side of mountain, forever climbing step by step. They are raising other baby goats there too. They keep going.

The red color of our ladybird's dress represents the root chakra, the seat of our security, stability and finances. It is the energy center of our feet, legs, lower pelvis and hips. The stone all around her symbolizes Capricorn earthiness, as an earth sign. The door way to the beautiful mountain view represents this readings guidance to get out and smell the roses and the coffee every once in awhile and have fun. She is holding a crystal! It looks like she is programming her intentions into the crystal. This is full moon ritual. You can do this by grounding and centering yourself with a few breaths. Say a prayer.  Hold your crystal and thinking about what you want to release now that is not working for you. Feel it on your bones and in your body. Take some deep breaths. Give voice to it by saying "Hah!" and forcefully get it out. 

This maiden represents the Goddess. Her robe is royal and red. Roman women had a juno, what they considered their unique and personal female spirit. The goddess Juno was called Regina, which means queen. Treat yourself kindly and well so you may extend yourself to others kindly and well. 



Feel like you getting serious about your career and work? Or even found your life purpose? There is drive to strategize and the need to sit and dream. Stay focused now on your goals especially until the coming new moon. Capricorn is all about goals!


 Patience
Caps are ambitious, steadfast, loyal and driven. Three days before and after the full moon decide what you would like to go forward with in work, and what you would not. Remember change takes time. Most importantly if you are hanging onto a work disaster or issue from the past, its time to let it go. Its total perfection to journal about this during this moon phase so you can move on. Even if you feel right or victimized...the divorce is final. How can you get on to your next love or job of a lifetime if you are holding onto someone who may not have treated you well. 

If you are enlightened enough and open, which of course you are because you are here, you may already see who you were in that relationship or workplace and how you could've done x and y better. This doesn't mean not being treated well and being blind-sided is OK! But looking at what you learned and how you can be better from it applies to relationships, personal and business-wise right now. True power is in taking responsibility...broken down simply means being able to respond. How could you have better responded? That is where true power lies. 

As well as letting go old work stories, Saturn energy can bring sadness. You may find yourself mourning friends you have lost related to work. If you find yourself grieving the past and how things used to be, know that this is the work of sister moon. New and healthy work opportunities and friendships can now be born. 

Find ways to be free. Forgive the past. Its time to release and let go. You know what you are holding onto and how you would feel if you dropped that sh#t. It doesn't mean its OK, it didn't happen or that things don't ultimately need to change. It just means you won't let it eat you up inside anymore. Jump to the peace train.


☽ Peace

Mother Mary showed up to bring sweet nurturing love and peace representing the Goddess as Great Mother. She along with the goddess Juno rule conception and commitment. Juno is the daughter of taskmaster Saturn. Does your ambition trump taking care of yourself? Or being with your family? Are you taking your sweeties for granted? Again life will not fall apart in an afternoon by the beach, by taking a ten minute break. This moon will help you to create more balance between work and goal-setting and enjoying life and those you adore spending time with. 

On the flip side are you doing everything you can to show them at work how great you are and working late and long hours for some appreciation? We all need to be seen, heard and understood, but you aren't going to get that at work honey. It might be time to ask for a raise, or begin considering what it would be like to move forward. You don't have to make any moves until you are ready. Put it into motion between now and the next new moon. Reinvention takes time. 

If you feel unappreciated take steps to do that for you right away. Nurture yourself and your people. Take time to ponder if you are doing way too much for others at this time and feeling depleted and worn out. Small steps create big change. 

Maybe its time to add a meditation practice? Start with 2-3 minutes in the morning or whenever you have some time. Before bed is beautiful too. If you say you don't have time for meditation you absolutely need it. Find your meditation jam. Journaling or sitting for a time in the morning just appreciating and loving life is a perfect meditation especially if you are strapped for time. Again start with five minutes. Your life will change. 

Time to spread your beautiful peacock feathers. Be big and bright at work, and beautiful and loved at home.

I want you to feel good. I do these oracle card readings to bring you great insight, hope and healing as well as bringing out the beautiful BAD ASS that you are. If you need a personal attention reach out to me. It is amazingly good to get confirmation in an intuitive reading for where you are, why you are there and ultimately what you can do about it. For now share how you feel and what you are thinking after this reading. Reaching out makes things happen. Show the Universe you mean business. I am here for you. 

The unreal is more powerful than the real. Because nothing is as perfect as you can imagine it. Because its only intangible ideas, concepts, beliefs, fantasies that last. Stone crumbles. Wood rots. People, well they die. But things as fragile as a thought, a dream, a legend, they can go on and on. If you can change they way people think. The way they see themselves. The way they see the world. You can change the way people live their lives. That's the only lasting thing you can create.

~ Chuck Palahniuk


*Oracle cards: By request...Vintage Wisdom ~ Victoria Moseley

Beautiful and sweet Full Moon Vibes to you and yours...
XoTatiana

ps. I'm taking my own advice and having a ten minute rest. Come see my latest events! See you soon. 

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It's easy to get caught up in the drama of life and the issues that surface, as life does. I think it's human nature. We lean on ourselves and what we think we should do, or not do about something. We toil and turn over things we can't change in the blink of any eye, or a turn of the wrist. Saying you're sorry can take a while to reach someone. A lifetime of smaller surface ripples to the tidal wave sized events like saying goodbye, losing your job and getting sick will alter the course of a life. 


It's a supernatural feat for a Virgo Sun (everything is fixable) - Gemini Rising (let me count the many ways this can be done and executed) - Aquarius Moon (the world is fixable) to step back and let things be. I am learning. Yet I think I know the world. I know most things that I am really twisted over, do ask something from me. My spirituality has taught me I cannot know the deeper mystery of how and why things happen, so I need to get myself out of the way so the supernatural can do it's thing. 


I also need to get that I can give my twistedness, my frustration and stress over to my Higher Power.  What do you call yours? I call mine GodGoddess. 


Spirituality says relying on ourselves, means we are not relying on our Higher Power. I used to have a really hard time with that. Did that mean not doing or saying anything? God will handle your business. God will magically have the perfect company that makes CD covers call me at home. Relying on your Higher Power sounded lazy to me. Who's going to handle things? What needs to be said or done, and where do I start? How can I just let go of the pain or frustration of a fight with a family member? Or the ending of a very special friendship?  Emotionally, letting go means I don't care or I am not invested or I am lazy. I need to do something and often that something is ruminating; worrying and thinking about it over and over.


The image above is from my latest trip to Kona. I borrowed my chair borrowed from a friend for my stay and brought it to Honaunau, the City of Refuge. I went there to release and have a coming to GG moment. I needed to take refuge in the dead white coral sand and stones, many of them the shape of hearts. Under an unforgettable tree at the waters edge, in the place where all can be forgiven and forgotten, I surrendered to the most challenging and difficult three years of my life.


I developed anxiety on stage, the place I feel the most safe and in my bliss, and had to take time off from performing. That felt like it was happening to me. Moving, starting over, my Mother dying, who I did not have a good relationship with, and the Flood in 2014 which ruined my basement and most of AngelEarth Studio just happened. And on some level the anxiety as much as I think I created it, happened to. I didn't ask for that. 



The Big Island was GG calling me to take refuge and yield to all that had happened. I asked for a new beginning, still raw and nervous to sing and emotionally in between crises. I simply could not start over by myself. I could not push it, make it happen, turn back time or turn it forward, so I asked for help.


We are not what's happening to us. If you are going through something really hard right now, I hope you have found a safe haven and place to rest in these words and in this mantra. We belong to something greater and we can take shelter in knowing that. May you feel it down to the marrow of your bones.

XoTatiana

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It is my mission to turn the high beam of sweet love your way. No matter where you are, in or out of relationship, the weekend demands bodacious and thrilling Love Day treats, take-aways, and super Self-Lovedom. It might even require a tantrum...a magic love-releasing of sorts. Whatever you need, this is your chance to give it to yourself like it should be given. 


The Do's
#1 Make a date for the weekend
This year Sunday is Love Day. Reserve the whole weekend if you can. Go out with the girls or the guys. Get out. Go dancing and live it up. Set the intention to have the best time ever and you will. 

Execute "Operation Loveness". A home-sweet-home date might just be the best, and exactly what you need right now. Invite a friend or two of your special besties and slumber party it. If you like to slumber long and alone in your bed, invite them for a cozy dinner, drinks and a movie. Give them a coffee and send them home warmly into the night.

A few perfect "Love Day" films. 
-Wild
-Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
-Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
-Fried Green Tomatoes
-Thelma & Louise

Spending the night alone could be your definition of blissed out. Go all-out for you. Order out and have it delivered. Spread furry blankets and (safely) light candles. Have a pitcher of water, wine or margaritas etc. at arms reach but do not drive. Get really good chocolate, or have a cake made for you with exactly what you want it to say on top. Watch a good girl movie or a season of your favorite show. 

Have a long conversation with a friend over skype and share a cocktail, coffee or glass of wine together. Reminisce about all the great times you have had together. Express the deep love you will always have for your dearest friends, no matter what is going on in life. They are definitely lifetime gems to be grateful for. Your besties are forever.



#2 Adorn Yourself 
Going out for the night? Dress up! Dress hot! Do your make-up and wear those special shoes. Look in the mirror before you go and tell yourself you are fabulous, because you are. Wear your favorite crystals, jewelry and live it up. Consider calling a cab, limo or having a designated driver for the night.

If you decide to be the goddess-queen of your lair, wear some sensual, beautiful clothing that sings sexy-lounging. Do not throw on your usual sack-out sweats. Pick something beautiful that feels good against your skin, and makes you feel beautiful inside and out. Wear lipstick, some brand new silky soft pants or a pretty comfortable loose sweater. Which brings me too...Gifts.


#3 Give Yourself Gifts
This is the weekend to:
-Get your nails done alone or with friends
-Book a spa day alone or with your Besties
-Take a trip to visit a friend
-Buy yourself an "extravagant" gift 
-Of course have flowers delivered to Ms. Loveness
-Buy a new outfit to wear for going out and dancing
-Buy a new robe or lounge wear that screams how deserving you are of this queenly treatment
-Wear lipstick


The Don'ts
 #1 Do not go out to a couples kind of restaurant by yourself, and look at couples who seem to be having the best time together. Perhaps if you could really see the truth of the relationship, their issues and all the fights they've been in, you would choose to be single. 

#2 Do not meet your friends and have too many drinks, drive home and/or make yourself sick. This is your time to rule, not hurl. 

#3 Do not look at pictures of your ex, the two of you together, or look them up on Facebook. In fact seriously consider burning most of those old photos if not all of them. Have a Love-Burning (safely please) in honor of your new Ms. Loveness status. 

#4 Do not time travel to the dimension of the past or allow yourself to ache over what most likely was not the relationship you were supposed to be in. 




I have a feeling sister, that this just might be one of the very best Valentine's celebrations you have ever had. Being good to yourself, visiting and cherishing friends and special people in your life that you do love, adds more power to your love beam, making you super-irresistible. Partners that let you down and just didn't work because they couldn't commit (wouldn't commit) or put their work first, or expected you to be superwoman so they could keep playing outside, or the ones that betrayed you simply cannot exist in this kind of love realm. If you keep treating yourself like this, you will be able to spot them from a mile away. Loving yourself first changes everything.

I have a special gift for you my dear. Head on over here to get my Lakshmi Bountiful Blessings CD. You will feel amazing after you listen to it! 

Have the best Love Day ever! Let me know how it goes.

XoTatiana
ps. Pass this along to your girlfriends who may need love and support this weekend. 

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